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WEDDINGSTo Our Valued Customers, For over 130 years, we have hosted countless events & weddings and we look forward to continuing to do so. Due to state mandates, some upcoming events may have to be postponed. We understand the importance of these dates to you and assure you that we are ready to help, just a phone call away. Please contact your banquet manager by phone or email so we can discuss your upcoming event. We look forward to celebrating with you soon. Thank you, About WeddingsWhen it comes to weddings, Lessing's has followed one simple philosophy for over a century, "we take care of our couples and guests as if they were family." From one-of-a-kind mansions and a medieval-style chateau to intimate country clubs and a breathtaking castle, venue locations span from Montauk to Westchester, and most recently, Florida. Each venue offers a unique feature and are all complimented by exquisite cuisine prepared by award-winning chefs. With over 130 years of experience, Lessing's can make your dream wedding come true. Upcoming EventsNew VenuesA legacy of remarkable hospitality comes with experience. The Lessing's Weddings division has grown exponentially since we first got started and continues to do so. We are proud to share with you some of our newest venues. With our expert culinary teams and award-winning chefs, we're sure to deliver the most memorable of events.
![]() ![]() The Barn at Old Bethpage Old Bethpage, New York ![]() ![]() Essex Club Brentwood, New York ![]() ![]() Pelican Club Jupiter, Florida ![]() ![]() Heritage Club at Bethpage Farmingdale, New York CastlesImagine your fairytale dreams come true. The possibilities are endless with a timeless setting.
![]() ![]() Chateau at Coindre Hall Huntington, New York ![]() ![]() Whitby Castle Rye, New York Country ClubsPicturesque gardens, endless charm and fine cuisine, all complete with exceptional service. Each of our country clubs is unique in its own way and will go above and beyond all your expectations.
![]() ![]() Smithtown Landing Smithtown, New York ![]() ![]() Stonebridge Country Club Smithtown, New York Mansions & EstatesClassic and timeless. Our mansions and estates offer a breathtaking and intimate backdrop, all with outstanding cuisine, that will leave a lasting impression. ![]() ![]() Bourne Mansion Oakdale, New York ![]() ![]() Estate at Three Village Inn Stony Brook, New York ![]() ![]() Mansion at Timber Point Great River, New York ![]() ![]() The Mansion at Oyster Bay Woodbury, New York ![]() ![]() The Mansion at West Sayville West Sayville, New York SeasideExchange your vows by the sea and celebrate with family and friends while soaking in panoramic water views. It's like a destination dream without the travel.
![]() ![]() 360° East at Montauk Downs Montauk, New York ![]() ![]() Pavilion at Sunken Meadow Kings Park, New York ![]() ![]() Weddings at View Oakdale, New York VineyardsThe beauty of a vineyard speaks for itself, with enchanting greenery, vast landscapes and endless vistas. The romantic tranquility will whisk you and your guests away to another world.
![]() ![]() The Vineyards at Aquebogue Aquebogue, New York |